It’s no secret that Greek organizations (including fraternities, sororities, academic and cultural interest Greek-letter organizations) face many challenges to their reputations due to how they’re portrayed in pop culture and through isolated real-world incidents.
So, I consulted Amber Bidwell, chapter advisor to Alpha Chi Omega at Trinity College, to better understand how she helps navigate common misconceptions about Greek life. She also told me about the strategies she uses to uplift the new chapter as they seek to build a positive presence on campus.
Acknowledging and addressing these myths head-on can help students and Greek life advisors uplift their Greek systems and banish these negative stereotypes.
So read on as we address five common Greek life myths and how an experienced chapter advisor has approached them.
This stereotype is so widespread that it’s one of the top concerns for many potential members and their loved ones.
To say hazing is completely nonexistent in Greek life would sadly be a lie but advisors should understand that hazing is illegal in 44 states, plus many institutions and organizations have zero-tolerance hazing policies.
Here are some of the methods that Amber recommends to address this issue:
Although the stereotypical picture of hazing is all about excessive drinking and outlandish dares, hazing can also appear as uncomfortable tasks, errands, or favors.
It’s vital for you to be able to identify hazing in all its forms. There are many great resources on hazing education — such as the Hazing Prevention Consortium, Prevent Zone, and these online courses — to help you get started.
Amber recommends starting from the top down. Have concrete policies and messaging from the institutional and headquarters levels, build in educational modules, and live the policies rather than just stating them. Make sure to check in on your organizations to ensure that they are not hazing their members and have a reporting system in place in case an incident should ever occur.
Almost all Greek organizations have judiciary or conduct boards, a campus Greek life or activities department, and headquarters to seek advice and educational materials from should a hazing incident arise.
Actions often depend on the severity of the incident and typically entail educating involved parties, issuing sanctions, and/or removing offending members of the organizations.
Many campuses and organizations are beginning to utilize restorative justice techniques in addressing incidents of hazing. This technique emphasizes accountability, making amends, and, when appropriate, facilitated meetings between victims, offenders, and other involved parties to repair the harm done.
Many Greek organizations and campuses are using new terms to avoid negative connotations that previously helped fuel imbalances. Popular lingo substitutes include ‘headquarters’ instead of ‘nationals’, ‘new members’ instead of ‘pledges’, and ‘recruitment’ instead of ‘rush.’
Additionally, campuses are embracing nationwide initiatives to help build a culture against hazing. These include National Hazing Prevention Week, These Hands Don’t Haze, and even Domestic Violence Awareness Month as many experts consider hazing to be a form of domestic violence.
Through these actions, organizations and campus are empowering students to stand up against and prevent hazing.
Many members of the Greek community are extremely passionate about their philanthropies! Loads of members, including Amber herself, join Greek life specifically because of philanthropy and even choose their chapter based on it.
You can help address this myth by:
By having your chapter support other chapters, they are likely to support yours back, building a positive inter-Greek-life culture.
Showing rather than telling the campus community how passionate your Greek organization is about their philanthropy. On many campuses, Greek orgs are consistently the top fundraisers for philanthropies among all student groups.
Encourage the broader campus to get to know your chapter through tabling in the student union, hosting 5Ks, doing fundraisers on campus, and more.
After all, the focus on philanthropy shouldn’t be about gaining clout. Amber’s chapter enjoys making blankets for local homeless shelters, designing greeting cards for veterans, and fundraising for Black Lives Matter.They also host fundraising drives for feminine hygiene products, canned food, and winter clothing.
Take a look at your organization and think critically about what other groups on and off campus you can collaborate with. For example, Amber’s Alpha Chi Omega chapter has partnered with the Vagina Monologues, the campus women’s center, and cultural organizations to co-host educational workshops, fundraisers, events, and more.
The possibilities for collaboration and building philanthropy are endless, and they can help your Greek organization develop mutually-beneficial relationships all across campus.
This myth comes primarily from the movies.
Every Greek organization includes executive leadership, non-executive board positions, alumni advisors, headquarters advisors, resident or part-time consultants, Greek boards, and campus representatives in the form of a Greek or campus activities office.
You can help address this myth by:
By emphasizing the incredible leadership already within your chapter, you can showcase the purpose and stability that is valued by your Greek organization and help banish this ridiculous myth.
Yes, it’s true that joining a Greek organization requires a significant time commitment and produces strong bonds among members. However, this certainly doesn’t mean that members are cut-off from the broader campus.
You can help address this myth by:
These activities will not only allow your members to expand their horizons beyond your organization, but they’ll also further develop collaborations with other organizations on campus.
Although the motivation to join Greek life is often social in nature, this myth has largely been proven false. Many colleges and universities report that the average GPA among Greek-affiliated students is higher than the overall institutional average.
You can help address this myth by:
The few students who join Greek life just to party quickly realize that parties are not what Greek life is all about and that scholarship is one of the many important values emphasized by the Greek community.
By addressing these common myths, you’ll boost engagement and decrease stigmas. In return, better communication and partnerships can tear down silos between Greek and non-Greek organizations and support student development — our ultimate shared goal.
For more tips on advising student leadership organizations, look no further than The Top 5 Changes You Need to Make as an SGA Advisor When Working Remotely.
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